The decision to let go and the act of letting go are two completely different things. The latter, you have absolutely no control over.
Often that is a choice your heart makes all on its own.
All you can really do is stand strong and decide you can no longer have that person in your life. This means no calls or texts, removing them from your social media and resisting the urge to look them up.
The old cliche ‘out of sight, out of mind’ doesn’t always work but more often than not, it does help.
Over time, the world keeps spinning and life keeps moving forward.
Even if you think you’re standing still.
One day, without you even noticing, you will be in a completely different place and find you aren’t so connected with the past anymore.
Letting go is something that happens gradually and once you have, it will no longer cross your mind. However long it takes, just take comfort in knowing you will get there in the end.
Hi po :) Mahirap po ba Chem Eng? Gusto ko po sana mag Chem eng. kaso parang ang hirap. :(
Oh man, it’s been so long since I’ve opened my Tumblr account and I saw this message just now. I hope you have made a decision if you should still take my course or not.
Mahirap ba ang Chem Eng? Yes, it is. Wala namang madaling course, pero mas mahirap talaga chem eng..Probably the hardest in all the engineering programs hahahaha. Pero para sa akin lang yun. Lahat naman nagsstruggle sa ChE. Pero, thing is, if you have an edge sa chemistry and mathematics, you’ll do great in BS ChE. I’ve failed soooo many subjects but I’m still taking it. I’m passionate with it now. Survival talaga at patibayan dito. Bawal mahina ang loob at yung walang tiwala. :)
In addition, go get your BS Chemical Engineering degree in De La Salle University - Manila. It’s definitely the #1 university for my course, and hopefully, your future course. :)
If you need help, feel free to message me firstname.lastname@example.org! :D
“It is an interesting law of romance that a truly strong woman will choose a strong man who disagrees with her over a weak one who goes along. Strength demands intelligence, intelligence demands stimulation, and weakness is boring. It is better to find a partner you can contend with for a lifetime than one who accommodates you because he doesn’t really care.”—Roger Ebert (via observando)